Adoptions and Orphans

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Adoption is defined as the legal process by which a person becomes a lawful member of a family different from their birth family. An order of adoption is ruled by the court, granting adoptive parents the same rights and responsibilities as parents whose children are born to them. The adopted child therefore receives the rights to inheritance, child support, having their name legally changed and an issuance of an amended birth certificate.

There are different types of adoption. They are classified as independent, agency, stepparent, relative placement and adult adoption. An independent adoption occurs when adoptive families and birth parents find each other on their own or through the assistance of an adoption intermediary. Agency adoptions are different in that they are handled through a child placement agency that is licensed by the State Department of Social Services. Stepparent adoptions are defined when a family adopting is a birth parent with a new spouse and if the other parent has relinquished rights. Adult adoption is the process whereupon a person eighteen years or older is legally adopted by one or more persons eighteen years or older. Last, relative placement adoption is when the birth parent(s) is still a minor, has died or is disabled, or the child has been removed due to abuse or neglect, and another relative assumes physical custody and responsibility for a child.

In the United States, two-thirds of all adoptions are agency adoptions.

Who may adopt? The U.S. Constitution does not outline fundamentally the right to adopt. Requirements for adoption are based on individual state law. Most states have modeled their adoption statues upon the Uniform Adoption Act. This act provides that any individual may adopt another individual in an effort to create the legal relationship of child and parent, subject to the adopting individual having reached adulthood. In regards to factors that may disqualify one who can adopt, differs by states. The Uniform Adoption Act does not prohibit the unmarried from adopting but some states do. Other states disqualify those suffering from physical or mental disabilities from adoption and/or have ‘reputability requirements’.

With reputability requirements, an individual cannot petition for adoption unless the court makes an official finding that the individual is acceptable as an adoptive parent. This requires that an investigatory report be submitted by a state agency qualifying the individual. Details such as the potential adoptive parent’s religion, social history, financial status, moral fitness, mental and physical fitness and criminal background are weighed.

In many states, gays and lesbians are restricted from adopting.  Some jurisdictions consider sexual orientation as one factor when considering if a parent fits the acceptability requirement. Yet, out-of-state adoptions must be recognized per Adar v Smith. In the U.S. there are 270,000 children living with same-sex couples, one quarter of these or 65,000 have been adopted.

Before adoption can occur, the birth mother and birth father, (if he has properly established paternity) hold the primary right of consent to adoption of their child. Either one or both parents could have their rights terminated for reasons that include abandonment, failure to support the child, mental incompetence, or parental unfitness due to abuse or neglect. When neither parent is able to give consent, legal entities are given this responsibility. These entities include agencies that have custody of the child such as a person who has been given custody, a guardian, a court having jurisdiction over the child, a close relative of the child or a ‘next friend’ of the child who is a responsible adult appointed by the court.

Older children must give consent to their adoption. Most states age of consent is at 14. Each state’s law specifies when consent can be executed. Most states specify that a birth parent may execute consent to adoption any time after the birth of the child. Other states require a waiting period. The shortest waiting periods are 12 and 24 hours – the longest are 10 and 15 days. The right of a parent to revoke their consent is strictly limited and some states it is irrevocable.

Need some advice on exactly where to start the process of second parent adopting. Tennessee has no set law or ruling on same-sex second parent adoption and its unclear if this type of adoption has ever been granted. If anyone has any info on the matter, I would greatly appreciate it.

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• What costs can you expect to incur? In this chapter, we try to give a rough idea of what to expect in terms of financial outlay. Adoptions can be quite expensive, but we’ll offer a few ideas for you to look into that may be able to offset some, or most of the cost involved.

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The legality of international adoptions is often questioned, but many adoptive parents believe they were led to their child regardless of the birth country. Hear about the legality of international adoption with tips from the parent of two adopted children in this free video on adoption. Expert: Anne Graham Bio: Anne Graham is a resident of Georgetown, TX, and the proud parent of two adopted children. Filmmaker: Demand Media

Can we visit the orphanage our child is from? What should we know before we travel?

For example: Caucasion parent(s) and a Guatemalan or Chinese child

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My ex husband has been out of my childs life for almost 2 years now. Hasn’t called or came to see him. My current husband would like to adopt my child. Does anyone have any knowledge of how much it would cost me for this.Attorney fees and such? Thank you for your help in advance! I live in Indiana if this helps!

My ex b/f hasn’t seen his son in 7 years. My son is now 8 years old.He also pays $15 monthly when it is suppossed to be $200 monthly. We dont know where he lives.How much will it cost if we use a lawyer? How easy will it be for my husband to adopt my son? We live in pennsylvania.
My husband is also a truck driver who is barely home. How often will they require him to be home for this process.

How much would step parent adoption cost? And what if I cant afford a lawyer what else can I do? Im in missouri!